Big Martha

Martha Kostyra

September 16, 1914 - November 16, 2007

I am very sad to tell you that my mom passed away. Here's a tribute to Martha Kostyra -- Big Martha.

Please feel free to reflect on her amazing life by leaving a comment.

Mom waving hello (goodbye?) on her 93rd birthday.

Comments

[PAULINE]

Martha,
Please know how sad I am to hear the news of your mom's passing...it's so heart breaking.
I always enjoyed the times she was with you on your show...she was such an amazing woman..she will be missed. Please know that I will keep you & your family in my prayers.
Pauline

[Mary J]

I am so sorry for your loss Martha, I know how wonderfully close you were with her, but always remember her light still shines so very bright in you and she is watching you from above. Please remember all your fans feel your loss...there is nothing like a Mom.

[sara]

I am very sorry for your lose.
Big Martha was always a joy to see on the show.

[Becca]

Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear this.
Praying for comfort and peace for your family.

[Mary J]

I am so sorry for your loss Martha, I know how wonderfully close you were with her, but always remember her light still shines so very bright in you and she is watching you from above. Please remember all your fans feel your loss...there is nothing like a Mom.

[susan jacobsen]

Martha,

I'm deeply sadden about the passing of Big Martha; she will be deeply missed. Over the years you had brought her into our homes, I thank you for that. You can tell she was a strong loving woman.

The passing of parent is never easy, but you have the greatest memories of her...and those memories will live on forever.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

[Alcea Alba]

Martha, my deepest condolences to you and your family. I was shocked to read of the passing of your dear mother. I first "met" your mother via your television show one Christmas over a decade ago. Big Martha was demonstrating her baking skills in your East Hampton kitchen. I couldn't believe this tiny woman had so much muscle to manipulate that huge ball of dough with ease and dexterity. Quite impressive! Once again, please accept my deepest condolences at this very painful time.

[Brenda]

Dear Martha,
You have my deepest sympathy on the loss of your Mother. My best to you during this difficult time.

[Lorraine Brewer]

Martha, my deepest condolences to you and your family. Please know that she was an inspiration to me. I truly enjoyed learning from her, and I will miss her also. I will remember her in my prayers.

[PAT CHITTY]

Big Martha was such a beautiful person. She always lit up the show when she was on. There was always a laugh to share and a smile. She will be very missed!

[Janie Schisler]

Oh I am so sorry, Martha for the loss of your dear Mom. A heartfelt hug to you and Alexis and all of your family, who are missing her so. May your memories be a rich source of comfort and we will hold you in our prayers. Remember to take time for yourself during this stressful time.

[MJ]

So sorry for your loss, no words can soften the pain right now, but know you are loved by so many people along with family and friends.
Your Mom will always be beside you and watching out for you.
My prayers are with you Martha.

[Annie]

Martha your Mom rocked!! I am so sorry to hear about her passing. My thoughts are with you.

[michelle]

I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. It always made me smile to see you two working together on your shows. You are in my thoughts.

[Carrie]

Oh Martha, I am so terribly sorry to hear of the loss of your dear mother. She always brought a smile to my face when I would see her appear on your shows through out the year.

May she rest in peace and eternal happiness.

My thoughts and prayers to you and your family at what I am sure is a quite difficult time.

[nadine chan]

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your beautiful mother Martha. She lived life well, and her legacy of homekeeping and cooking will live on in "little" Martha.
Best wishes to all the family at this very sad time.
Nadine Chan, Australia.

[Paula]

Dear Martha, I am so sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. My Mother passed away a year ago on September 23rd also at the age of 93. I miss her very much but know she had a wonderful long life and was loved very much by her family as I know your Mother was. Please accept my sincere condolences at this time and know you have wonderful memories of the life you shared together.
Paula Cox

[Susan E.]

Oh No! I'm so sorry Martha. My heart aches for you right now. I just came on the blog tonight after I put the kids to bed to see an update and then I saw your note. :( She had an amazing long life and I know you learned so much from her. I enjoyed every time you had her on your shows from the very beginning and laughed at the times you joked on the Set. I know we will never forget her and the amazing work she did. God Bless you and many sympathies for you. I'm so sorry.

[Margie]

I loved her eyes, her smile, her hands.
Margie

[nadine chan]

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your beautiful mother Martha. She lived life well, and her legacy of good homekeeping and cooking will live on in "little" Martha. best wishes to all the family at this very sad time.
Nadine Chan, Australia.

[Mike]

She taught us all so much.

Our thoughts are with you!!

[Marcy]

I am heartbroken for you Martha...
I have been a fan of yours for so long ... and so I feel I have followed your life's journey.
The one thing that has always been very easy to see, was/is your love for your mother, and her's for you.
No matter how old we are, our Mother is always "OUR MOTHER".
Our one and only.
They love us with unflinching devotion.
Shameless in how proud they are of us.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family at the passing of such an inspirational woman.
How lucky you have been to have had her as your mother.
Deepest Sympathay
Marcy M.
Michigan

[Andrew Ritchie]

Martha, there are no words. Your mother has been an inspiration. She will always, always be remembered. I have tears as I write this. What joy she brought to this world with her persistence, love and generosity. I know how much you loved her. I can't tell you how much I'll miss her.

We are strangers, but I love you, Martha. Feel my hugs.

Yours,
Andrew
Ottawa, Canada

[Yulanda Santos]

I have been watching you on television for many years and have always enjoyed the segments that included your Mother she had a great laugh and smile. She seemed very proud of all your success. I lost my mother several years ago and would watch the two of you interact with a big smile on my face and a bit a jelousy since I no longer had that with my own mother. I will not tell you that time will heal your heart. The truth is a part of your heart will always be empty. The love you shared will always be with you. I am so thankful to have been able to have a glimpse of your relationship on television. God bless you and your family.

[Jennifer from Georgia]

Your Mom enjoyed life and lived every minute to the fullest!! What a wonderful example for us all to follow. Her warm smile and laughter will be missed! Martha, may you and your family feel peace during this time.

[Dana Miron]

I'm very sorry to hear this news.

Over the years, I've enjoyed seeing your mother's appearances on your shows. She seemed to be a delightful woman. Thank you for sharing her with us.

My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family during this difficult time. May you take comfort in all wonderful memories that will live with you forever.

Best Regards,
Dana

[Ann Chamberlain]

It is with a heavy heart that I read the news of Big Marthas passing. I know what the loss is like. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

[Michele]

I'm so sorry. I have always admired your bond with your mother and that you were close enough to include her in your show and public life. It speaks volumes about both of you. My sincere condolences.

[donnadeeme]

I'm grateful for all of the Polish phrases that "Big Martha" has used-it brings back fond memories of my grandmother. I'm very sadden for Martha & her family. She will be missed by us all. God Bless

[Jenna]

I'm so sorry. I always enjoyed watching the shows that you did with her.

[Julie F]

You are in my thoughts and prayers. Your mother will make a beautiful Angel. {{{Hugs}}} Julie

[Jenna]

I'm so sorry. I always enjoyed watching the shows that you did with her.

[sonya]

spunky woman!i liked the part where she said people always ask her "did martha learn everything from you?"and she answers.."Of course!"

[Angel]

Hi Martha,

I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. I really enjoyed the tribute that you put together for her. It seems that she touched your life in many many different ways! My family will be thinking of you and your family at this difficult time.

Sincerely yours,
Angel

[Joseph]

Martha,
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.Its really our loss as well.I loved watching you and your mother together.Making stolen for Christmas or pierogies when you made madelines for her tea party way back in season one.I wanted to let you know you are such a huge inspiration to me and other readers.And that you and your family are in my prayers.And just to let you know how much I just adore your works!Take care.

[Mae]

Martha, I am so sorry. I pray that you will find peace to sustain you during these next days and weeks. I know it's hard, but I hope you are able to spend the next few days celebrating her life. You are blessed to have had her with you until age 93. You have so many wonderful memories. She was a most gracious lady and I know she was proud of you and your accomplishments. Just think of the legacy she has left you! What a blessing! You and your family are in my prayers.

[Joel]

Martha,

I am so sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed seeing you and your mother together on your show. Your mother always seemed like a warm and energetic woman. You and your family are in my thoughts.

[Diana]

Your Mother was an inspiration! I want to express my sincere sympathy to Martha and her family.

[Joe]

Martha, this is sooo sad. My thoughts will be with you and your family.

[Barbara A. Wilson]

Martha Kostyra will never be gone - her spirit will live on in the hearts of her family - and with those of us who got to know her via the show.
She has graced us with a dignity and warmth and a cheerful and positive demeanor that will be long remembered.
Heartfelt sympathy to her family and friends - but remember - she will be watching you.

sincerely,
Barbara

[Nick Angiolillo]

I've been watching her as long as I've been watching you, Martha. I remember watching you cook with her on From Martha's Kitchen ages ago. I'm very sorry for your loss.

[Craig Mische]

Sorry to hear this news Martha. My mother, Mary, has been a long time fan/subscriber of yours and has always enjoyed appearances by your mother. I am sorry to hear the news because of the sadness brought to you, someone that has brought joy to my mother, but also because of the end of your wonderful mother's life. My mother will miss her visits to your show.

My observations of you lead me to believe that the sadness will be overpowered by the joy that comes from celebrating your mother's life and all that she was about.

Best regards,

Craig

[MaineChefRunner]

I am so sorry to hear of your mom's death. I have no doubt that there is now another angel in heaven to watch over you and your family.

[David Eckard]

Dear Martha,

My thoughts and prayers are with you, Alexis, and the extended family. She was an amazing woman and I'm sure I speak for many people when I say how fortunate I feel to have been able to get to know her through your shows over the years. Thank you for that.

Kindest regards,
David Eckard
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

[LAFAYETTEDAVID]

MARTHA MY WHOLE HEART GOES OUT TO YOU. BIG MARTHA WAS A TRUE LADY AND I ALWAYS LOVED SEEING YOU TO TOGETHER, AS WELL AS HEARING ALL HER GREAT RECIPES. I LOVED HER WIT. I LOST MY MOTHER A YEAR AGO AND ITS SO HARD.MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. LOVE TO YOU ALL DAVID

[Monica]

I can't imagine your pain. What an enormous thing to cope with. Please take time and care for yourself and family, but mostly yourself Martha.

[Valerie]

I'm sorry to hear about your mother. This is a time of year that I have lost loved ones as well, and it makes it a bit melancholy in the years to come. But we still have precious, sweet memories of our time together.
Your mom was so cool!

[Kenn]

My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family, Martha. As I mentioned to you just the other day, your Mother has always been a wonderful inspiration to so many. She has certainly left her mark on so many of us. What a treasure.

Know that we are thinking of you not only today, but everyday.

Kenn

[Polly]

Oh sweet Martha, I'm so sorry! Be like her... she was wonderful. Hold now to prayer and reading your Bible. My prayers are with you... Polly

[bernadette]

May you meet up with her again! So heartbreaking and bitter sweet. The journey of life is pretty amazing!

[Brian]

I am so sorry for your loss, Martha. Your mother was such a delight. Everytime I make her meatloaf for my family and friends, I will think of her. Thank you for sharing that wonderful soul with us.

[chris]

I'm sorry.

[Sarah]

Martha,

I am so sorry and deeply saddened to hear of your mother's passing.

She was a wonderful woman (as are you) and she will be deeply missed by many.

I am keeping you and your family in my prayers.
Take care,

Sarah

[Gus.]

I love you and your mother equally. She was such a vibrant and beautiful woman. No wonder you are the woman you are today. I love that you and your mother had a great relationship and showed that to America, when family is so looked over now a days.

I'm sorry for your lost from the bottom of my heart.

Augustus

[Claudine]

Oh Martha, I am so sorry! Your mom was a wonderful treasure and we are blessed that you shared her with all of us. My thoughts and prayer go out to you and your family.
Take some time and know that we are all thinking about you and keeping you in our hearts.
I am so sorry for your loss,
much love to you
CLaudine

[Blanca]

My thoughts and prayers are with you I always enjoy the programs with your Mom there. Good Memories are forever there with you.

[Elizabeth Wickland]

Martha -

I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. I have enjoyed seeing the bond between you two and I know that what she worked so hard to instill in you will continue in your life and work. Thank you for introducing her to all of us around the world. There is no one so dear to us as our mothers and you remind women everywhere to take pride in where and from whom we came. Thank you, and may you find Peace as you grieve.

[Alison]

I'm so sorry to hear that your mother passed. I so enjoyed watching her on the show and you two seemed to have a great relationship. She was a beautiful lady and very loved!

[Brian Andriola]

Dear Martha,
I'm saddened to hear of you and your family's deep loss.
Whenever I met Big Martha, mostly while shooting in your homes, she was always so fascinating. In some ways she reminded me of my own grandmother, she was wise. I remember once while shooting at Turkey Hill she stopped by to return a plastic food container she had that belonged to your kitchen. I thought it was so sweet, so industrious and thoughtful to be returning something most of us would throw away or never expect to be returned. She had a great sense of value and didnt seem like the type of person who ever took things for granted.
Another memory I have is of her sitting at the desk in the library of Turkey Hill writing to her "fans". When we asked her what she was up to she explained how important it was for her to respond to her fans, and how important letter writing was as an art. She inspired me to write letters to my grandparents that night, something I realized I hadn't done in too long.
Big Martha was a great inspiration. She was a person who lived, worked and matured gracefully, with great dignity, wisdom and sense of independence.
Celebrating her many years of giving reminds us all how much she will be missed.
Breathe, reflect and let us know how youre doing.
Brian A

[Annette]

Martha,

I am so sorry for your loss - your mother was very entertaining and she will be missed. I will keep you and your mother in my thoughts and prayers over this holiday season!

[Mika]

I am so sorry.
I loved your show especially when your mother appeared.

[amy]

so very sorry. know that you have my thoughts and prayers.

[Marieanne]

Dear Martha,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your wonderful Mom. She was a wonderful woman who lived a long life which should be celebrated. I do hope that the memories of her can sustain you during this time. My heart goes out to you.

Marieanne

[Vicki Mchugh]

My deepest condolences to you and your family, Martha. I greatly admired your Mom. She was as much of an inspiration to me as you are and I hope that wonderful memories of fantastic times you had with her comfort you and yours at this most difficult time. As we say in our Home for Keeps Martha web group,

Hugs,
Vicki

[carillon in Phoenix]

Dear Martha,
I know what you are going through now, as my own dear Mother died 15 years ago...you were so lucky to have her, and in good health, as long as you did. My thoughts have been with you every since we learned of her illness this fall. Her faith will be a comfort to you in the coming months, as will the fact that she did not linger during a long period of illness, but rested comfortably and surrounded by family and love. God's blessings to you and all your family. A loyal fan, Carillon in Phoenix

[Mischa]

I'm so sorry for your loss, Martha. My family's thoughts are with you.

[Tara]

I was sorry to hear that your Mother passed away. She certainly seemed like she was a fantastic woman. I wish you and your family peace during this time.

[Betty]

Dear Martha,
I watched your show when you said your Mom had been hosptalized. I was shocked to learn today of her passing.She was a wonderful woman! She reminded me of an Aunt of mine and my Polish heritage. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.She lives on through you! God Bless and Keep you.
Betty M.

[JasonZ]

I am so sorry for your loss. I always looked forward to your mother's segments as though they were a holiday or a special event. Last fall, my mother and I had the pleasure of seeing your mother at a taping of your show. It was such a thrill to see her. I wish we'd have worked up the courage to say "hello". She will be greatly missed!

Jason Zappolo

[Jeff]

I am so sorry for your loss.

[stephanie]

I loved your mother for years and years. I remember so many of those segments from your last show. I still watch her every Christmas (on tape!) making Stollen with you!! She was a great teacher and a great inspiration. I know you will miss her - but her presence will be felt with you always in so many of the things you do. Please know she was a great teacher to me - a great woman and I am sad for your loss tonight.

[Marissa]

Dear Martha,
I was surprised to find out about your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family. I enjoyed watching your mom on your show, and by watching you two, I could tell how much you loved each other. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Turn to your Comforter. He's there for you.

[Lynn Merriam]

No matter how old you are when your mom dies. A day never goes by that you don't miss her.

I am saddened by your loss. I adored your mom and will miss seeing her smiling face.

[m connor]

I'm so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. You were always so kind to her. May she rest in peace.

[Elaine]

The tribute to your Mom is so beautiful. She was indeed a lovely woman and I will miss her visits to your show. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

XOXOXOXOXOXO

[Anne]

I am so sorry for your loss. Grive--mourn-- cry- let it all out--- remember all the good times. There is a time and season for everything and your heart will sing again.

[John]

Martha, my heart goes out to you, Alexis and the rest of your family. Like you, Big Martha was just as much an inspiration to us all. Stay strong, and be well!

John In Michigan

[kim]

Martha,
I am so very sorry for your loss. There is nothing like the love of a mother. I have been blessed so far with mine for 76 yrs. I hope many more. I will offer a prayer in church on Sunday for her and your family.She will never leave you. She will be with you everyday in your heart and just a call away. When you need her just say her name and she will be there for you. She loved you very much that was evident, and you her.Peace be with you at this difficult time. God Bless You.

Kim from Maryland

[Margie E.]

Martha, I'm so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Just last week I was going through some of my old vhs tapes looking for episodes of your shows featuring your mother. She has always been a favorite of mine. Please accept my condolences.

[Jon Mondrik]

Dear Martha,
Your sweet mother was such a joy and pleasure to watch. She was a wise and stalwart soul who's presents will be sorely missed. Thank you for sharing her with us. And thank you for allowing us to express our sympathy during your time of mourning.
Martha, amid this time of pain and sadness, I hope you find some comfort in knowing that so many truly care about you, and how much we loved your mother as if she was our own.
With much love and sorrow,
Jon

[JO]

Dear Martha,
You have shared so much of your life with us. Big Martha was the heart of the best of it. Thank you. JO

[Pat]

With sincere sympathy.
You are in my thoughts
and prayers.

pmmw/Pat

[Jill P.]

Martha
I am so sorry Big Martha is not with you right now, but she will be waiting for you with arms wide open as my own mother Martha will be waiting for me when God calls us home. Till then I know our Martha moms will be proud of us.What an amazing woman your mom is to us all, such an inspiration as you are too. I pray you feel God holding you close just now.
Hugs
Jill

[brian brown]

Martha
I have been watching your show for years and and love you Mom as much as you I am so sorry for your loss she seemed to have had a very full life which you helped her enjoy immensely .She will be missed
Brian and family

[domestic_girl]

I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Please accept my sincere and heartfelt condolences and may you be comforted by your many wonderful and cherished memories of your mother.

[Sisc]

Those who live in the hearts of others.....never die.

[Emma]

What sad news to read this evening. Our prayers are for you and your family. Your mother was loved by so many, and will always be present in our hearts. Thank you indeed for sharing her with all of us.

[Ann]

I'm so sorry to hear that your mother passed away. It's always difficult to lose a loved one.

[Julio J. Barroso]

May the light of your mothers life see you throuh this difficult time and remind you of the many good things.

With deepest sympathy.

Julio

[Jared Fruland]

Martha,

I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. She will truly be remembered and missed by everyone. You have my prayers and condolences.

Kindest Regards,
Jared Fruland

[Jared]

Martha,

I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. She will truly be remembered and missed by everyone. You have my prayers and condolences.

Kindest Regards,
Jared Fruland

[Jan Erickson]

My Dearest Martha & "Mom", I am deeply saddened by this loss. What a fantastic human being she was! Because of her, we were so fortunate to get to know you and because of you, we were again fortunate to get to know her. I am so glad to have lived during this time and to have the opportunity to enjoy all of the wonderful times the two of you shared with all of us. I will cherish the memories forever. You both made the world a better place. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and your family through this most difficult time. Always remember how much you are loved and admired. Take care. All my love, Jan

[Sandy Thompson]

Dearest Martha,
It is with great sadness that I heard about the loss of your beloved mother. I always enjoyed seeing the two of you on your various shows and the bond you two had was always quite evident.
I am so happy that "Mom" was able to enjoy not just a long life but a life full of quality also. She lived it to the fullest and each day was a wonderfull gift that she was able to share with her loved ones. These "gifts" will always be with you as you remember times spent together and they will help you in the days to come.
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Remember,your fans love you and we are there for you.
Sincerely,
Sandy Thompson / Crystal River, FL

[Mary]

Dear Martha, My heart is sad to learn of Big Martha's passing. She was a pleasure to watch on your shows over the years. She is a credit to your success. I admire your bond with your mother and the care you provided for her in her later years. I pray that you and the family will find comfort. Big Martha was a wonderful role model for us all. I will treasure her recipes for years to come as well as her family values. God Bless, Mary

[michael anthamatten]

Dear Martha,
May the inspiration Big Martha brought to all her fans, friends, and families continue to inspire a healthy and satisfying life. We love you Big Martha!

[Lois A. Bross]

Dear Martha,

I cannot tell you how shocked I was to learn of Big Martha's passing. And I know her passing has left a huge hole in your life - particularly at this generally joyous time of the year this will be a terrible loss to somehow absorb, a time I'm sure she loved and enjoyed greatly with you and your daughter. But the two of you are both, in the spirit of your mother, strong, independent and creative women and you will, in the spirit of Big Martha, square your chins and stand tall, as she would have wanted you to. But it will be hard, O, I know it will be very difficult. Please know that there are many, many people who are thinking of you in this difficult time. May the Lord hold you close to his heart and help you find the strength to go on.

Lois A. Bross, a long-time listener and well wisher

[michele]

My heart is a little bit broken. I so loved Martha's mom. She was a great lady - i loved her. How lucky was she to live to see her daughter's Artistic genius become what it is today. God bless Mrs. Kostyra may she see us down here on earth whenever she wants :)

[Kara]

Martha,

My sympathy goes out to you and your family. I wanted to share with you a quote from Aeschylus' Agamemnon that has helped me through grief.

And even in our sleep, pain which cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart, and in our own despite, against our will,
comes wisdom through the awful grace of God.

[michael in phoenix]

I am so sorry for your loss. My best wishes are with you and your family in this sad time. Your mother was always such a bright part of any show, she will be missed by your legions of fans. Blessings and good things to you and yours. -Michael

[Mrs. Hamidah from Malaysia]

Dear Martha,
My deepest condolences to you from me and all your fans from Malaysia. And we hope that you could still have the confidence and strength to share your knowledge and experiences with us, don't forget that your mom is always there watching for you and she's still so lucky to have a daughter like you.... Just remember her in your prays...

Loves,
Hamidah

[Pamela Krest]

Wow...I am so sorry for your loss!!
I loved watching you and your Mother cooking together on TV,it reminded me of my love of cooking with my Mother.
My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
(((huggs))))
Pamela Krest

[Kate Harper]

Martha your mother came across as being a very kind and wonderful woman. I've enjoyed seeing her on your shows over the years. What a celebration her long life is. May God's blessings and comfort be with you and your family. Kate

[Elizabeth H]

Dear Martha,
I was so sorry to hear of the passing of your lovely mother. Mother's should be honoured, and you and Big Martha clearly shared a wnderfully close and loving realationship. How lucky for you to have her for such a long time.
Thank you for sharing her with us, she was a special, special lady.
Love and prayers with you and your family,
Elizabeth Sydney, Australia

[Susan Wettstein]

Dear Martha,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. It was such a joy to watch the two of you cooking side by side on your show, I looked forward to seeing her on your show. I lost my mother seven years ago and know how difficult this time can be but your memories of the good times you shared will help you through the days ahead.

My condolences

[Susie]

I'm so sorry, Martha. Your mom was fabulous and raised the most amazing woman in the world.

You have so many wonderful memories of her...I hope you're doing OK. I'm calling my mom first thing in the morning.

Susie

[Jim]

Martha,

I can't begin to tell you how sad I am to learn of this. Big Martha was always a delight when she appeared on your show. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. She will be missed.

[Pam From CA]

I am so glad you had your Mom on your television show over the years,just think what a great pictorial family history is preserved for all her grandchildren and future great grandchildren to enjoy one day who can say they have home movies such as these! It was fun to have been able to speak with Mrs.K on your Ask Martha's Mother's Day radio special this past May. Aren't you happy that you did this and she was such a natural, her love for radio coming through?(another keepsake is the audio tape from this radio show) She was having a blast answering all those questions. Who could have imagined if you had ended up Diane Helen Kostyra . It very well could have been so had your grandma had her way and not your Mother! Can you just picture Diane Stewart Living & Diane Stewart Collection at Marcy's? I can't think of you as anyone but Martha.

Did the family know her dream at one time was to have been a ballroom dancer? Maybe she is dancing now in heaven with your Dad?
I can just hear her laughing & talking about that play she had just went to with her friends, THE FULL MONTY she was telling us all about it on the radio I couldn't stop laughing she was so tickled about it and you acted so "shocked" she was a hoot you know.

She suffers no more & you were so lucky to have her in your life for 66 years. God gave you the gift of extra time you were able to return from Japan and spend a few more precious days with your Mom a very special gift Martha.

I think she is having a wonderful reunion in heaven about now.

Please take care ma'am.

Pam from CA.

[David Baylor]

Martha-

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you. You are in my thoughts.

-David

[Liisamarja]

dear martha and family,

condolences on your loss. at the time of mourning it's hard to remember the good times and infact celebrate. big martha's life certainly calls for celebration as her's was long, active, meaningful and she was surrounded by numerous loving members of her family. what more could anyone one of us want. i hope you can find solace remembering those precious moments you each and everyone shared with big martha.

peace

[jane patrick]

thinking of you martha at this sad time my heart goes out to you and your family. jane australia.

[Kenn]

For those that may be interested, you can make a donation to the Martha Stewart Center for Living in honor and memory of Mrs. Kostyra. go to:
http://www.mountsinai.org/msh/clinical_services/mscl.htm#contact

[Sara]

Your mom was full of wit, spunk and sparkling eyes! I loved watching her and hope there will be a commemorative DVD. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Alexis and all your family.

[Sylvia From Beijing]

Dear Martha,
I am so sad to learn this heartbreaking news.It is the first time I watch a video of Big Martha on your blog,as I have just started to read your blog a couple days ago.She is so cute and loving.I really envy you having a so wonderful mother and feel sorry about your loss.God bless her.

[Laurie Ivanchuk{Ukraine}]

So sorry to see this post today May your mom rest in peace, Take care Martha.

[Carol Gilbert, OP]

Heaven's garden holds a new bloom! My deepest sympathy and prayers to you and your family.

[Carol Gilbert, OP]

Heaven's garden holds a new bloom! My deepest sympathy and prayers to you and your family.

[Shelley Henn]

Martha,
I am very saddened to hear the news of your dear Moms passing! I loved the segments of your Mom and her Polish references. She was such a down to earth person one whom everyone would love to call Mom! You have been truly blessed to have and to share a wonderful person as your Mother with all of us lucky viewers!
Cherish the memories. Live, love and laugh at the many words of wisdom that she has shared over the years! Peace be with you and your family in the days and weeks to come.

[Mina Arseneault]

Martha and Family, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of you mother. Know that you have always made your viewers feel close to you when tears come to their eyes when they hear of Mrs. Kostyra's passing. Just know that our prayers are with you.

[Gerry Pape]

So sorry to hear about your mother.

[Cathy]

First of all, my heart goes out to you and your family...an out-flowing of sympathy is directed to you. What a wonderful thing to have your Mother's contributions captured in images from her appearances on your shows.
God speed to you.

[Joan]

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family, Martha, from me and my 89-year-old mom, Irene. We adored watching you and Big Martha~~~such mutual love and devotion. Rest in peace, Mrs. Kostyra.

[Karen]

Martha, my heart breaks for you and your family. I will always remember the times that Big Martha was on your show. I loved her. I will keep you and yours in my prayers. Will there be a file with Mrs. Kostyra'S recipes? I would love to have them. I have saved quite a few of them when she has been on your show and it would be great if her recipes lived on with her fans.

[Kathy in Maryland]

Dear Martha,

I am so saddened to hear of the passing of your Mother. May the thoughts and prayers of friends and family keep you going during this difficult time. Just remember that your Mother is as close as your memories of her.

Kathy Winland

[Vivian Price]

I am so very sorry about your mom.
I lost my Mom in 2004 and it was
always comforting to see your mom
doing so well....I'm crying for
both of our mom's passing.

[Ronnie Schultz]

I hope the memories you have of your mother stay in your heart and soul forever. I am glad she did not suffer for a long time and may she rest in peace, as we say.
Many will miss her, even those who did not know her personally.
I also hope Alexis and your family are a comfort for you at this time.

Ronnie in NYC

[Tori]

My condolences on the loss of your mom. May she rest in peace.

Tori,
Toronto, Canada

[kristina]

I am so sorry for you and your family's loss, Martha. I enjoyed getting to know your Mother from the many shows that she appeared on. May God give you all the peace and strength you need at this time.

[Trish]

Martha,
I only found out this morning but I knew. I get feelings and they kept me awake all last night; I just couldn't face getting online to find out for sure.

I am so sorry but at the same time, I am happy that she will not be suffering. She knew what she wanted at the end and you obeyed her wishes. Never regret that. I never thought someone else's mother would have this effect on me but I felt like I knew big Martha. Thanks for having her on your show and allowing us to get to know her; she was a delightful woman and you were lucky to have just a wonderful mom. I am missing her already. With love and blessings to you and your family.
Trish

[kat]

Martha,
Your mum was a very special woman. Wishing you peace at this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Alexis, and all your family.

[Sarah Dennis]

Martha, I am so saddened by the news of your mother's passing! It was always such a pleasure to see the interaction between the two of you in the kitchen. Cooking is an excellent way to bridge the gap between generations, my mom and I have shared some of our best times standing above the stove. (My mom's name happens to be Martha as well). I always loved when your mother shared her homemade recipes. Big Martha will live in our hearts always! Thank you Martha for sharing your mother with us.

May God bless you and your family, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

[Beverly in NC]

I am so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful Mother you were blessed with. Thank You for all of the shows where you shared your Mother with the world. She was truly blessed to have you as her daughter.

Beverly in NC

[laura]

I'm so sorry - I so enjoyed watching you two interact - it's what love of family should be about.

[Gail]

The loss of your staunchest supporter and your inspiration isn't easy. Try to find peace in knowing that a lot of people are thinking fondly of your mother and your family, that you have such wonderful memories of her and that you were able to do everything that could be done for her.

[Kelly]

Martha -

My thoughts and prayers go out to you during this time.

Remember that you can still enjoy all of the memories of your mother with all the times she was on your shows. I have enjoyed all the segments that she was on and I could see the love between the both of you.

She has stuck with you through thick and thin and celebrate her life that she has given everyone who has come in contact with her!

Polish Blessing

May your hand be outstretched to all you meet. And may all men say 'Brother' when they speak of you.May the land be fertile beneath your feet. May your days be gentle as the sun-kissed dew.

[Kelly]

Martha -

My thoughts and prayers go out to you during this time.

Remember that you can still enjoy all of the memories of your mother with all the times she was on your shows. I have enjoyed all the segments that she was on and I could see the love between the both of you.

She has stuck with you through thick and thin and celebrate her life that she has given everyone who has come in contact with her!

Polish Blessing

May your hand be outstretched to all you meet. And may all men say 'Brother' when they speak of you.May the land be fertile beneath your feet. May your days be gentle as the sun-kissed dew.

[Mona C]

Martha and Alexis,
I am sadden to hear the news of your mother and grandmother's passing. May you be comforted by family and friends over the coming weeks and know that we also grieve with you. Martha, your mom was a joy to watch over the years on your show, and we thank you for letting us see those wonderful and enjoyable moments. The greatest honor has been to watch all of you over the years and your mother legacy will live on with us through you. God Bless and many hugs to both of you.

[Vanessa]

Martha, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. It was always so fun to watch the two of you working together on your shows. Losing your mom has to be one of the most difficult things anyone has to go through. You will be in my thoughts.
Vanessa

[Kara]

Martha:

My deepest sympathy goes to you and your entire family with the loss of your Mother. Having a Mother as long as you have..is truly a blessing from God. Keep always close to you in spirit her love and devotion as one of God's gifts to you. God Bless your Mother and the life she shared with all of us. God's Blessings to you. Kara

[Linda Spurlock]

May her legacy live long through you and your daughter, and other other children and grandchildren. This was a grand lady.

[daphne]

I am so sorry for your loss. I know how you feel I lost my mom 4 years ago and it is so hard. Just know that she is in your heart and you will see her in your dreams. my god bless your family and you during these hard times

[Kathleen Schott]

Martha...I was sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. A special bond between Mother and Daughter is never forgotten....May she continue to live through your many blessed memories. Thinking of you and your family during this time....God Bless...K

[Rudy]

I am so sorry for your loss. My grandmother passed away in May and it has been so difficult on my mother. I feel for your loss. No words really ake away the pain, just know many are thinking of you and grieving with you.

[Jennifer in Texas]

What a lovely lady. It is so obvious in these clips that she was so very proud of her daughter. My prayers are with you.

[missy]

I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother. I always enjoyed the traditional recipes from your family and Martha Kostyra kept those traditions alive to pass to you. My condolences to you and your family.

[Carol]

Martha - what a wonderful woman and a life to be celebrated. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family right now. It is time to give thanks for a long and full life.

[VALERIE]

My 90 year old Mom had the same thing happen Aug 14th this year.I am so glad she was in my life for all the time we had.Know how much joy that you gave to her and know that only her body is no longer here but she always will be with you and was so happy to be your Mom!!You have my deepest sympathies and hope.

[Christy N]

Dear Martha,

I cannot imagine the sense of loss you must be feeling right now. I have been watching you for the past 14 years and I loved the segments with your mother. She will be missed, but not forgotten. When I make her pirogies or meat loaf, I will do so with a smile. I am sorry for your loss.

Sincerely,
Christy N

[Kathy]

Just like you Martha,your beloved mom was National Treasure.xoxoxo

[Jay Payton]

So saddened to hear of your loss of your dear mother.She was a charming and delightful lady.Blessings to you at this difficult time and always.

[Elizabeth]

Dear Martha:

The loss of a Mother is such a very sad, sad time. My thoughts are with you and your family. You have so many wonderful memories and that is what will get you through this sadness.

Elizabeth

[Laurie - El Granada, CA]

Martha,
I was so sad to hear the news. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Your mom was such a character and I loved watching the 2 of you together. You could always see the love and friendship you shared. Your mom will be greatly missed .. You introduced her to us and she quickly won me over - what a wonderful woman to have in your life for so long!

Love and blessings,
Laurie

[Jennifer]

She was such a dear lady! I always enjoyed her humor. She will be missed. Take care.

[J.A. Williams]

Martha, I was so sorry to hear that your mother had died. She was a joy to watch on your show. You have your mother's laugh.She will alway's be with you in spirit. You Had a wonderful teacher. God bless you.

[john.]

Dear Martha,

My condolences on the loss of your mother. She was always so wonderful to see on your show - especially when she was making you just a little bit nuts!
She will be missed..but at least we know that she's getting heaven all ship-shape for us all!

Best wishes to you and your family in your time of sadness.

john.

[Anne Marie]

I am very sorry to hear about your mom. My mom and I had a hard time the first half of my life. I am very glad to say we put that past us and are now very close. I can only imagine the loss you now feel. You are in my prayers.

[Jane]

So very sorry for the loss of your mom. May God comfort you and bring peace to you and your family
Thank you for sharing her with us
on your show. She was a joy to whatch.

[Diana]

What a wonderful person who lived a long and happy life. She will be missed.

[Kamela Cody]

I heard you mention on the Today show that you're mother wasn't well. I'm sorry to have learned to today that she indeed passed. I send my prayers and thoughts to the family & friends that knew Big Martha. Take care of yourself Martha! Remember the joy that you & your mother have brought to the world! Sincerely, Kamela

[Amy]

Martha My thoughts and prayers are with and your family at this sad time. I am so sorry for your loss.

[Anke]

Dear Martha
Please accept my deepest sympathy and heartfelt thoughts during this difficult time. May the comfort of family and friends be your strength now and in the days ahead.

[Simone Smith]

Martha,
I am very sorry for your loss. Your mother was a fantastic person. After all, she raised one of the most successful businesswomen in American history and with you helped countless people rediscover the joys of cooking, crafts, and homemaking.
She will be missed.

[garrett]

Martha,
I am so sorry to hear the passing of a great woman, I was just watching you two last night on a dvd, Amazing Amazing woman !!!! you will keep her spirit alive through you and through us for what she has taught us . My thoughs are with you and your family

garrett

[The Merriman Family]

Your mother was a lovely woman. We are very sorry for your loss, you are in our thoughts & prayers.

[Regina]

It gave me a great deal of pleasure to watch you and your mom together on television. Being of Polish descent, I enjoyed her references to things I remembered from my childhood and on. Please, know that we are all thinking of you and your family at this sad time.

[ruth anderson]

dear martha,
i was so saddend to read the news this morning on your blog, i usually ck your blog everyday, but somehow was too busy yesterday, your web is my home page, it will take awhile for you to get adjusted to the loss and of course there will always be moments that take you back to memories every day rest of your life, all of your viewers will always remember your fond attention to your mother, and how you turned to her so many times in your difficult times, she has been such an inspiration to many of us who are loyal appreciate viewers of yours, she passed so much determination and optimism on to you and many of us feel you have certainly " done your mamma proud" she will be missed.

[Katie the Scrapbook Lady]

so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. What a beautiful life she has led. Thanks for sharing her with us.

[Larry LaVigne]

Dear Martha and Family,

Sorry to hear of the passing of your mother, alway's enjoyed watching her when she was on your show she was a real hoot to watch, she will be missed Larry & Mario, Spokane,WA.

[erinfoley]

Dear Martha,
Oh how my Mother and I have loved watching you and your Mom over the years. We would always call each other when there was a "Big Martha" segment. Both of your personalities would really shine when you were together laughing and cooking. Thank you for sharing her with us. What an inspiration she was to us all. You, Alexis and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers.
God Bless,
Erin, Dallas

[ann]

A life well lived is its own reward.
Sincere condolences from Dakota

[Brenda]

Dear Martha,
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. What an inspiration she -- and all our mothers -- are to us. I know you would not be where you are today without her guidance and encouragement. She had humor and spirit and endurance to go along with her cooking skills and generous manner. My condolences to you and Alexis, and to the rest of your family. How marvelous that she will live on for you, and for the rest of us, on DVD, in your books and in all the past issues of your magazine. Sincerely yours.

[Jennifer Mattly]

Martha,
I'm so sorry to hear of "Grandma" Kostyra's passing. I have such lovely memories of her when I lived with her, Laura, Chris, and Sophie. She helped to assimilate me into the area and, in effect, took me under her wing.
She was a great, strong woman and I will miss her.
I will be thinking of you and your family in the days to come. Please give Sophie a hug from me...she will feel her Nanny's passing strongly.
Jenny

[Candi]

Martha,
Dear I am so very sorry for your loss, my heart breaks for you. You are one of my VERY FAVORITE people and I send my condolances to you. I know we all here do but I just wanted to tell you, from the bottom of my heart, I could see the love between you and I know she meant the world to you and I am truely Sorry!! I wish you the best in trying to recover from this tragedy.

[Kristine]

Dear Martha, I was very sad when I read your announcement. It reminds us all to love and cherish the special bond between mothers and daughters. Even if your fans never got to see "Big Martha" on television, we would still know what an amazing mother and human being she was. Your success, talents, and warm spirit are testaments to Big Martha's wealth of knowledge and talents. So in many ways both of you inspired, entertained, and taught mothers and daughters all over the world. Thank you both. Very sorry for your loss.

[Chris]

Dear Martha,
You were blessed to have her for so many years. All your viewers know what wonderful memories you will carry with you. Our thoughts are with you and Alexis.
Chris

[Beth Salles]

My deepest sympathy to you and Alexis and the rest of your family. You share so much of your life with us and we love you for it. What great memories you will have on video of all your times together. It was always fun to see the love you had for your Mother and to share her wisdom and love of family. What a great feeling it must be for you to see how many peoples lives she touched through you. She was very lucky to have a daughter like you that made her so proud. My prayers are with you at this time. All your fans are here for you don't forget that.

[Deb Harris]

My heartfelt sympathy on the loss of your mother. I lost mine 16 years ago and I still am sad, but know she is in a better place and no longer in pain. Trust in God for all things.

[Jan Bell-Smith]

Martha,

I was sad to hear of the death of your mom. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Thank you for sharing "Big Martha" with us. She was such a neat lady and a true inspiration to us all.

[Kayla]

Martha,

I am so sorry to learn of your loss. Everyone else has already expressed it so well that I don't know what else I can add, but please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sincerely,
Kayla

[Mafalda from Portugal]

Dear Martha
Can´t find the "right" words to say to you. I know the feeling and there´s no consolation in these moments. But the love that others show to us is very welcoming, and we somehow feel that our dearest ones will never die.
From Portugal and with all my love, my toughts are with you and all your family.
God bless you.

[Cathy]

Sorry to hear about your Mom's
passing. There are really no words
but knowing so many people cared about your Mom should make you proud.

Take care

[Candi]

Dearest Martha,
I am so very sorry to hear the news of your mother passing. I want to pass on my condolances to you. I will pray for your peace with her passing. This is a terrible time I know and As everyone here who also THINKS The WORLD of you, My heart goes out to you, in your time of grief. Please know we all think alot of you and we know you were very close to your mom. Moms are so very special, and to involve her as you did in your life and your success is wonderful. I loved that you were always talking of her when she wasnt there with you. Please know I am very heart sick that you should have to suffer this loss. Know that I really think your wonderful and I truely am sorry, I wish you the best in the future and know you will hold her CLOSE in your heart. MOMS are such a sad loss. WE LOVE YOU MARTHA.

[Karen]

I'm sincerely sorry to hear that your mother had passed. You and your family are in my prayers.

[william]

Dear Martha,

I am so very sorry to hear about your mothers passing. I loved seeing her on your show. She was such a wonderful lady.

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

[Lynn Waller]

Dear Martha and Family,

My deepest sympathies are with you. Nothing is more sad than losing a loved one and as you go through the next few days and months ahead, I sincerely hope that peace will go with you. I have enjoyed seeing you and your mother together on your shows for years and she will be missed. As the holidays approach, I hope and pray that your happy memories of her will bring you comfort. God bless. Lynn

[Susan C.]

Martha,

I'm so sorry for your loss.
May the wonderful memories of your mom help you through tough time.

Thank you for sharing your mom with us.

My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this time.

Susan C.

[MIchele Clement]

Offering you and your family my deepest sympathy. It is through the soul that life is lived, loved and remembered. May the memories you shared with your beautiful mother bring you comfort, strength and courage during this time and throughout your life.

[carol]

Dear Martha,
Your mother was always a joy to watch...I remember her helping you on your 'old' show and I always thought she was so warm, kind, strong and fun. How lucky you are to have had her joy in your life for so long! I am so very sorry for her passing. I know how it is to loose your mother. May your memories bring you comfort as you grieve at this time. God bless you, your daughter and family. May your beautiful mother rest in peace.
Carol

[Travis Warrington]

Dear Ms. Sewart,

When I heard of your loss I was taken back. I am very sorry and offer my best wishes during this hard time, so close to the holidays. Your mother reminded me so very much of my grandmother and the way they taught us how to make a good home. I will keep you in my thoughts. Keep your head up.

Sincerely,
Travis Warrington
Houston, Texas

(life-long Martha Stewart fan)

[Rebecca]

Dear Martha,

My heartfelt sympathy for your loss. Over the years, my Polish grandmother and I have truly enjoyed watching you cook with your mother. Each segment brought about new discussions of our heritage, culture and traditions. Together, the two of you helped us hold onto these aspects of our lives in a rapidly changing world. You and your family will be in our prayers.

All best,
Rebecca

[Laura brown]

I was so, so sorry to hear about your mother. My mother died many years ago at a young age, you can be thankful that you had your mother as part of your life for so many years. She will live in your heart forever, as mine does.

Martha, I'm