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April 22, 2008

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delia

I'm so glad you (and Herb Kohl--I'm a fan of his as well) are bringing attention to this topic. I deeply fear that quality care may not be available for many elders in coming years--or may not be affordable for their families.

A question: does your view of healthy aging include discussion or endorsement of any sort of death with dignity plan?

ercy

Martha, thank you so much for expressing your thoughts on this very important issue. As the daughter of parents who have recently retired and are in the baby boomer age bracket, I have started to become more concerned about how their needs can be met.

Nan Ashby

Thank You! It is a problem in our society that is a threat to the well being of the family and our way of life. Only you Martha have really given so much to the home structure and well being of our oldest unit of society. My mother was critically ill with acute bronchitis for 25 years and was hospitalized at least 4 to 5 times with respiratory failure. The stress placed on my family is unexplainable. Luckily my brother is an internist which greatly lightened the pressure for me and my father. I don't look at the illness as a burden but actually it was. However, I would greatly carry it all over again to still have her with us. I then had to face a depressed and mentally inapt aged father. He has passed away and now I'm single and at the age of 58. I was never married and realize I had been the caregiver of the emotional stress of these illnesses. I'm a retired teacher of 32 years and now it is therapy to me to listen to your daily program and realize how important to me the care and love of making a home is truly the essence of life. Thank you , Nan

ercy

Martha, thank you so much for expressing your thoughts and addressing this issue with our government. As the daughter of parents that have recently retired, I often wonder how their needs can be met.

liisamarja

caring for the elderly isn't an issue just in america, we face the same here in europe. some communities and cultures will not have to make big chances in order to care for their elderly as it is their custom that the elderly live within the family already.

the issue hits hardest the countries that could earlier boast with the highest standart of welfare by the state. in the future there just isn't going to be enough of us to pay taxes in order for the government to do their part at the level we are now used to.

we all, each and everyone of us, need to start thinking what we can do for our elderly. like martha says, preparation and organization are key elements of making anything work, this applies also to taking care of our elderly when the time comes.

let's give our elderly the love and nurturing they once gave us, which they certainly deserve getting back!

Patia

Wonderful. I read the transcript. I agree, this issue is very important. I have seen so many elderly people and their families struggle to maintain a high quality of life in their later years, and to die with grace and dignity -- particularly when finances are tight. (Thank goodness for Hospice.)

I'm curious to see what actions the Senate committee will take. Good for you for taking a leadership role on this important issue.

Rita

Hi Martha,

Congratulations on the work of your center. Does it offer alternative medicine as well as Western medicine?

After learning about Melody Petersen new book, "Our Daily Meds," I did a series of posts on my blog The Survive and Thrive Boomer Guide at http://boomersurvive-thriveguide.typepad.com.

The increased use of prescription drugs, due to their advertising on TV, is a concern. Have you addressed this in your work?

Rita

Pru

Martha,

It is wonderful that you have such a platform to voice issues that go on not just in America, but all over the world. The speech read brilliantly. Well done.

Pam from California

I watched the entire video web cast over on the senate web site and caught your full session with the senate hearings. I think you presented yourself well and touched on many important points that the other panelists didn't address in their statements. Having the experience of your own Martha Stewart Center for the Aging helped give them the senators a guideline of future findings once your center has reported back on their statistics down the line with seniors who seek help at your center. I wish more centers were available around the country so that more seniors could get the medical help and support needed. It will be a dire situation in our near future when our medical sources are overflowing with to many patients and not enough trained care takers and faculties to take care of so many needy people.
It is welcoming that you are working on a hand book I am sure there are other hand books out there for other states and health centers but it can be overwhelming when a family is faced with so many questions and no answers when it is time for their loved one to seek help and support and have no place to go.
Long term care is getting more and more expensive and dealing with what to do with a family member when the time comes can be very emotional under the best circumstances let alone not knowing what to do and where to turn and no guidance from our Govt on aworking system for millions of people to take advantage of.
In watching the hearing(80 minutes) I felt we are sorely lacking in being prepared for this on sought and we better get a plan a good working plan set in motion soon for our nation or we are going to be in big trouble trying to place all these patients with all the things they will need for quality care long term or short term we aren't ready and we need to be.

Martha I think you bought up some very important examples for these folks to learn from I just hope they listened and took notes and will go forward with some of the ideas and suggestions and get going on making improvements in our system and getting things moving for the wheels are slow in turning and where will the needed funds come from?
There is so much to be done but at least this is a beginning. Great to see you there you did well. I hope you will continue to pursue these important issues and keep people on their toes at MSCFTA.(Martha Stewart Center)

Pam from CA

Georganne Lynch

Thank you Martha for your work and continued support for this very important issue. I am a caregiver for both my father who has Parkinsons and Alzheimer and is bedridden and also care for my mother who is able to care for herself, but is showing the "signs of aging", forgetfulness, starting to "shuffle" along and just slowing down. I have had to give up a good part of my life to care for them. I know many people are in my same shoes. Life can be very difficult even if the family has managed to save for the future, but most of us haven't planned for the future of having to care for their parents. I am fortunate to have a very good doctor to provide medical care for both of my parents, but providing caregiving is a subject that is very difficult. Most of us don't have a lot of information on this subject. Again, thank you for making more people aware.

Ann

Oh Martha, your mom would have been so proud of you for speaking at the Senate hearing. God bless you.

Kathy

Hi, Martha,
Thanks for your words to Senator Kohl's Senate Special Committee in support of healthy aging, so important to all of us. I learned of this shortage of health care professionals trained to care for older adults when my mother became ill. As you say, coordination of care is critical as is help for caregivers themselves. Your mother would be so so proud of your words to the committee and the continued work of the Center for Living. Thanks again.
Happy Earth Day!
Kathy

Sue

Martha,
No one could represent the Senate comittee better than you in my eyes. We applaud your insite and your ability to enact change. Thank You and I pray your mission will succeed in change.

Ruth

Martha,
I am a nurse who loves the field of Geriatrics. Thank you for bringing attention to this subject. I would love to come visit your facility.

cookiejar

Hi Martha,

I think the work you have done in this area is so very needed and I am glad you have brought this to attention. I particularly hope that we can see centers in my country as well, as I feel that the quality of life so often is lessened in a person's later years simply due to the nature of the health and personal care that is available to them.

When my grandmother became ill and passed away a few years ago, it was heartbreaking to see her as someone who had reared a large family, kept a beautiful home (which her husband had built himself), loved her garden and took pleasure in making her family happy, it was hard to accept that she needed to live in a 'hostel' for the elderly because of the medical care she needed to have access to, until she eventually needed to go to hospital. Most places like this do not have the same heart, warmth and loving personal touches of the home that a person is used to and I think it is sad that people often need to accept much less than what they have had their whole lives when they become elderly because that is the only option available to them with the medical care that they need. I think it would also be wonderful to have options for the children/other family members to stay with their elderly relatives in the centers when they want to, like taking a holiday, and if the elderly person is still in good health, to allow them a kitchen and other facilities they want so that they can still entertain their families on visits.

Please keep up your excellent work and I wish you lots of success with this project.

Kind regards,

Margie

The presentation of these facts is right on target. My mother was one of those individuals living in a small rural community with limited medical options. Yes she did receive medications that reacted with each other. Yes her life was never the same because of those medical over looks.
Yes, Martha and associates, you said what needed to said. As always thank you for understanding and presenting the truth.

Trish

I think your center is going to be the perfect blueprint for more centers around the country so I am really glad that Senator Kohl invited you to speak to his committee.

The fact that your center is developing new tools and resources for caregivers is very interesting to me and I commend that you are also collaborating with other organizations and individuals. I am a caregiver for my sister who has emphysema, chronic bronchitis and failing kidneys so you can imagine the various doctors and medication she is on. I watch for reactions anytime she is on something new but I'm no doctor. Like who knew the Theodur she has taken for years for breathing would cause a reaction with a certain antibiotic and almost kill her? And why? She had lost weight and her Theodur dosage needed to be lowered. One time she said she had a backache so she put heating pads on and almost burned herself when she fell asleep. What she really had was double pneumonia.

Some think they are capable of taking care of themselves when they aren't and not everyone has a caregiver living with them. It is frightening to think of 76 million baby boomers needing help maybe all at the same time! Trish

Linda Coran

Thank you so much for testifying, Martha. And for the center you built. The lack of adequate healthcare for the aging is a crisis looming for every American, and most people are completely unaware of it. I hope that you and Dr. Ridge are successful in reshaping the landscape. We will all benefit from it - no matter our current age.

Thank you again.

Sherey

Martha...so wonderful that you were able to speak to the Senate on this most important issue. We must all do our part to stay healthy and fit as we age. However, it's comforting to know that policies will be in place for those who need assistance and can live out their 'golden' years in as much comfort as possible.

Andrew Ritchie

Hi Martha,

I think what you're doing with the Centre for Living is wonderful. I am 31 and help to care for my grandmother, taking her to her appointments, doing her groceries and running errands when she needs me to. It can be taxing at times, but I find it very rewarding and I know how appreciative she is.

I think there are so many people who will benefit from your insights.

-Andrew

Susy

Martha, you are my hero.. my parents are over 70 and I worry about their well being all the time..

ShopLittleGifts

Great idea Martha. I love your segments on fitness and health. I think they focus on more of the 40s, 50s, 60s demographic and I use that information for my loved ones. I hope you will open a center for living in California as well.

Jan Erickson

Dear Martha, There are many concerns facing Americans today and one of the top concerns is eldercare. I applaud you for addressing this issue with such passion, intelligence, and compassion. I also applaud this committee for choosing you to address this need in our society. Having been a care giver myself, I understand your interest in improving the quality of eldercare and ways to aid caregivers. Thank you once again for helping all of us to live our lives the best we can. Jan

Becky

Thank you so much for all your work in the field of aging, and specifically for your testimony and for your Center for Aging. I also would like to thank you for the work of Dr. Brent Ridge--I have appreciated his columns in the magazine--two come to mind in particular, because they addressed issues that I dealt with, with my mother, who passed away in February of this year, of complications from chemo treatment for her colon cancer. The first article was one of his first in the magazine, addressing the issue of patients not informing their doctors of health issues, out of some misguided idea that they shouldn't "bother" them with minor issues, or some sense of privacy or reluctance to talk about their bodily functions. The other article addressed colon cancer in particular, which unfortunately was very personal for both Dr. Ridge, and my mother and me. I would hope that these articles help all of us keep informed, and share our concerns with those that can help us in our goal of a healthy, fulfilled life.

Jason

You look a little nervous. Were they nice to you?

OK people get ready. Martha for president is next. Just kidding. :)

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