I just found this list of the most popular songs requested for the all-important First Dance, based on a mobile DJ survey found here. This is a big decision for most couples, and I want to hear all about what you think of this list. Are you surprised by the songs that made it...or those that didn't?
- Unforgettable (Nat King Cole)
- Can't Help Falling In Love (Elvis Presley)
- Can I Have This Dance? (Ann Murray)
- The Way You Look Tonight (Frank Sinatra)
- It Had To Be You (Harry Connick, Jr.)
- What A Wonderful World (Louis Armstrong)
- Endless Love (Diana Ross and Lionel Richie)
- I Cross My Heart (George Strait)
- I Swear (John M. Montgomery or All 4 One)
- A Whole New World (Peabo Bryson & Regina Belle)
- As Time Goes By (A Kiss Is Just A Kiss) (Michael Feinstein)
- When You Say Nothing At All (Allison Krauss)
- Faithfully (Journey)
- No Ordinary Love (Sade)
- Here And Now (Luther Vandross)
- I Can Love you Like That (John M. Montgomery)
- Power Of Love (Celine Dion)
- Tonight I Celebrate My Love (Roberta Flack & Peabo Bryson)
- Everything I Do {I Do For You} (Bryan Adams)
- When A Man Loves A Woman (Percy Sledge or Michael Bolton)
- All My Life (Linda Ronstadt & Aaron Neville)
- I'll Be There (Mariah Carey)
- On Bended Knee (Boyz II Men)
- At Last (Etta James)
- Don't Know Much (Linda Ronstadt & Aaron Neville)
- From This Moment On (Shania Twain)
- Our Love Is Here To Stay (Harry Connick, Jr.)
- Unchained Melody (The Righteous Brothers)
Here are some of our favorite less-well-known First Dance options:
1) "First Day of My Life" (Bright Eyes)
2) "Look After You" (The Fray)
3) "Happily Ever After in Your Eyes" (Ben Harper)
4) "You're My First, My Last, My Everything" (Barry White)
5) "Steady As We Go" (Dave Matthews Band)
6) "Real Love" (Regina Spektor)
7) "All My Love" (Led Zeppelin)
8) "You Are the Sunshine of My Life" (Stevie Wonder)
9) "Too Good to be True" (Lauryn Hill)
10) "Ice Cream" (Sarah McLachlan)
11) "Kiss Me" (Sixpence None the Richer)
12) "How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved by You)" (James Taylor)
13) "Sweethearts Together" (The Rolling Stones)
Tip: Try dancing to your song choices with your spouse-to-be to make sure that you can dance to a song's particular beat before you choose it! As we all know, dancing skills vary, but some people simply prefer to dance to a song with a faster or slower beat. You will feel much more comfortable on your big day if you have done a trial run beforehand.
What song are you using for your First Dance? Is there a special story attached to it? Did you have a hard time choosing it? Share your stories!






This is an excellent list of dance choices. I actually used at least two of the songs mentioned in your list and they are amazing. No one ever thinks that the dance songs will leave lasting impressions but they indeed do. It's important to choose the right song/s.
Posted by: Lindsey | August 20, 2008 at 05:12 PM
We just decided, yesterday, our song will be "Everything" by Lifehouse I love the words and towards the end it brings tears to my eyes just thinking of dancing with my hubby to that song.
Posted by: Erica | October 11, 2008 at 12:38 AM
Love all the great comments on the blog about wedding first dances. Thanks. Steve with Golden Sounds Entertainment
Posted by: Golden Sounds Entertainment | October 20, 2008 at 02:12 AM
For our first dance, we'll be dancing to "Forever Mine" by the O'Jays. I'm so excited!
Posted by: Allison | October 28, 2008 at 01:19 PM
Edwin Mccain- I'll be... I always imagined this one being THE song.
Posted by: Jennifer | November 16, 2008 at 07:55 PM
We're dancing to "If this world were mine" by Luther Vandross!! Our dance is choreographed also....so excited...can't wait
Posted by: Kennedy | February 03, 2009 at 11:24 PM